@indulgencenan it was really the only instance I would have been comfortable moving to. I’ll probably just quit fediverse now. but that situation is really awful. hope the admin is doing ok
@sheep that's more than understandable. Even though I plan to look into a couple other instances, freaksonly was the one I had highest hopes for. Technically I am allowed to keep the account, and probably will even if I don't use it much.
I don't know any other recommendations that haven't already been covered by other folks beyond making a personal instance just for yourself (I've seen talk of some aethy users doing that who also may eventually open those places up for sign ups? But how those will be handled in the future and their resources is unknown - to me anyways)
I'd hate to see ya go, but I also want you to do what you think is best for your mental health, and there is always an option to check things out again if you feel up to it. I'll be keeping an eye on around here to see what ends up happening to aethy for sure, though.