I do not understand why anyone is making a big deal over.. what, aethy deferderating with an instance?
"We didn't have warning and it hurts refugees from aethy going there!" How though? You can go to any other instance if you need to move followers, aethy is gonna be down in a month anyways. It isn't an attack on anyone that aethy did this. If you are so butthurt about them sticking to their own rules even at the end... I dunno man, I just think all of this is silly.
You can still move to that instance, no one is stopping you. Warning people about behavior seen on there isn't an attack, we all have our own opinions on what is or isn't okay and people can make their own decisions with the information at hand.
Seriously, the fact this even became an issue is stupid.